Wow, you are getting some ridiculous hate here. You cheated once 2-3 years ago. You're not a "cheater" forever, let's calm down with the scarlet letters here.

Of course it was bad you did that. It was bad to get married when you were not ready.

It is brave to write this (even though, again, what you did was wrong). If there's any doubt- the comments show why it was brave. It doesn't make it necessarily honorable or great, but takes guts.

I hope everyone is better off now than before and I sincerely hope you're doing better now.